Marriage

The fruit of Good couples mean always

    If you want a good marriage, first make up your mind to have it, at any cost. A deliberate commitment to this is the foundation for all future decisions. Good marriage preparation must help to define the differences between two people and prepare them to enjoy those differences, Wife who want to dominate their husbands should remember; a man may not be a husband to his mother.' and also Men who behave like children should also remember that a women may not be a wife to her Son. Men derive the sense of value from being trusted and admired, and women derived theirs from being cared for.
       Remember if you stop appreciating and caring for you spouse(mwenzi wako), somebody else may start, (jitahidi to) own your anger, and encourage your spouse to own theirs, because Nobody has the power to make you angry unless you allow it, choose your tone of voice more carefully, for it communicates more than your choice of words
      Love does not maintain the marital commitment; rather it is the marital commitment which maintain love. Trying to be a good spouse? First take time to find out what your partner really needs from you , rather than what you think she/ he needs. and Good communication is made by quality rather than quantity